Everyday a friendship is ruined. Sometimes over nothing and other times over big things, but thats all just a way of life. People come and people go, it happens everyday, everywhere. Hatred mainly begins in the hard, because in order to hate someone, you must love them first. There will be times where you come across the type of hatred, and you dont know why its there, but thats alright. In order to ressolve most the problems, you can be civil and work it out the best you can. If you guys are true friends, then you wont let anything come between such a good friendship. For example, my grandma and grandpa had been together for 45 years. They have been through a lot of problems, even a little seperation for awhile, but they didnt let anything break them down. They set aside all their differences and made it work not only for them, but for the family. All of us would honestly be crushed if what they had together was ruined because they are all we know as good people.. Till this day, they are still together going strong.